John Meyer Books
10 Ideas for Singles: Why Valentine’s Day Is Better Solo
Valentine’s Day is often promoted as a couples-only celebration, but more and more people are embracing February 14 as the perfect opportunity to focus on the most important relationship in their lives: the one with themselves.
So forget the overpriced dinners and forced romantic gestures, here are some creative suggestions for you to enjoy on your own on Valentine’s Day, or any day, for that matter.
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1. Indulge in Your Favorite Meal – or Dessert
Cook up (or order in) the dish you’ve been craving lately without worrying about anyone else’s preferences. Lobster for lunch? Sure. Two ice cream sundaes for dessert? Yes, please. This is the day to spoil your stomach.
2. Book a Massage – or a Personal Spa Day
Bubble baths, face masks, aromatherapy—whatever you pleasure. Valentine’s Day can be stressful for wannabe lovers. But not for you. Today you’re going to pamper yourself and let the world melt away.
3. Plan a Solo Adventure – Be a Tourist, Visit a Museum, Art Gallery
You don’t have to go far. Plan your own day trip inside your own hometown. Explore a new neighborhood. Try a new restaurant. Check out that new art exhibit you’ve been hearing about. Be a tourist and give yourself a fresh new perspective—without even packing your passport.
4. Watch Exactly What You Want – See a Movie, Binge Watch Guilt-Free
Cue up your favorite rom-com, action flick, or binge-worthy series without anyone else touching the remote. Or better yet, go to the movie theater alone and load up on popcorn. Try an afternoon matinee. Chances are: no couples, no talking, no cell phone interruptions.
5. Unplug for the Day
Turn off your phone, log out of social media, and spend time reconnecting with yourself. For a whole day? Yes, a whole day. If you’re over 40, you probably lived a lot of your life without social media. It’s time to return to these carefree days. For one day at least: no news is good news.
6. Rediscover a Forgotten Hobby
We all have hobbies we abandoned long ago. Maybe today’s the day to rekindle that lost love. Pick up that guitar, revisit that old sketchbook, or finally finish that knitting project you started ages ago.
7. Try Something New
Or forget the past and look to the future. Sign up for that pottery class, learn a new language, or try that yoga session that once seemed so intimidating. Step out of your comfort zone—you just might find a new passion.
8. Declutter Your Space—Redecorate a Room
Whether you rent or own, everyone has that one room or personal space that’s a mess. You’ve been ignoring it for months—maybe even years. It’s time to tackle it. When you’re done, reward yourself.
9. Dive Into a Good Book
Oh, you don’t read? No? But you scroll through your phone for hours a day? Trust me, you read. Now get lost in a story that excites or inspires you. How about a classic? You know, that famous book you always meant to check out? It’s time to crack the cover. Not ready to buy it? The library has it for free.
10. Plan Your Dream Vacation
Even if you can’t travel right now, planning a future getaway can be exciting and motivating. Pour yourself a glass of wine and start your online adventure. Read blogs about your dream destinations, check flight options, and browse Airbnb listings. Bookmark everything—and start saving!
Bonus Suggestion: Give Back
Volunteer at a local charity or donate to a cause you care about. Let others go big on flowers and candy—helping others can be deeply fulfilling on Valentine’s Day. Or any day.
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No matter how you spend Valentine’s Day, remember that your happiness doesn’t depend on anyone else. So whether you’re indulging, exploring, or giving back, this is your time to celebrate you.
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